Love is d emotion which makes this world so beautiful….This
is the first time Im writing something on love...I see people finding the right
guy/gal based on a checklist they make…Everyone has a pre conceptualized image
of their partner way before they wud have ever met…Everyone wants the most
perfect person to b d love of their life…but as humans are we perfect…everyone
knows that no one is perfect but still we live in this bubble…we wait for that
perfect person…we try to see a person according to the checklist we have made,
as if it’s some examination…
But in reality does love understand such checklist…?
Firstly the whole essence of love gets diminished once u
judge someone…coz they both are contradictory to each other I feel…Love is nt
about finding xyz qualities… Its not some sort of SWOT(Strength weakness
opportunities threats) analysis… if someone says that he has fallen in love
after all d calculations then hez bluffing…coz if u take calculated decisions
then u don’t love…I have heard of people sacrificing lives in love…will u call
it a calculated decision after SWOT analysis…?
If at some point of ur life u feel u missed a particular
person who actually qualified ur checklist…don’t u think that according to the
same checklist u can also have a better person…as far as this checklist is
concerned,the process doesn’t end…
I dnt want to appear filmy but actually we get only one life
and the most lucky person is d one who has seen true love,love which doesn’t judge,love
which doesn’t look for qualification,love which makes u feel at ease,love which
makes u feel that u r special,love which accepts u d way u r,love which
forgives u for all d mistakes u have done,love which makes u a better person.Its
all about compatibility…accepting the weaknesses of each other and working on
strengths.
Love has the power to create beautiful relationships so
plz I only want to communicate that if ur partner doesn’t have certain
qualities u always wanted in ur mate to have(ur checklist),it doesn’t matter,consider
the compatibility u both share and be happy,you would nt like to loose someone
very special because of some uncertain future conceptualization of urs which no
one knows so believe in ur love and let love create its own path….!
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